Quote Originally Posted by Shana View Post
That's plain human nature. Judging someone is unavoidable. Our minds will automatically judge them even though we don't voice them out. That habit is hard-wired into the human brain.

Some people feel guilty for judging others in their mind and some just don't care. They say it out as a gossip. The latter one is the poisonous habit. If we choose to understand things even after our brain judges them, that's alright I guess.
I totally agree with you, Shana, Whether we accept it or not we do benchmark people around us. But I believe if we understand the person and situation there is nothing right and wrong and understanding is the best way to stop judging. Because I never judge the people or their doings who I understood very well.