What is something you hate doing that society expects you to do?

**Shana** · 09-02-2018, 05:18 AM

Originally Posted by Shivani

yeah, some of my freds face the same problem, they are being mistaken as being tomboish

Wanna know who invented the term "tomboy"! Really? Can't a girl be herself without being labelled as something every time? First of all, people should be made aware of how "boys" and "girls" are basically born "human".

**Moana** · 08-30-2018, 05:47 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello Friends,

Our society push us to do the things which we hate to do.
Sometimes we have to do them for our family.

What are the things society expect you to do which you hate to do?

In our society it is wrong to talk with a boy in streets, what our society wants us is o stay away from the boys1

**Bhavya** · 08-30-2018, 10:52 PM

Originally Posted by Shivani

In our society it is wrong to talk with a boy in streets, what our society wants us is o stay away from the boys1

This is the sad thing of our society,If a brother and sister go out in the street our society consider them as lovers

,People should understand not every girl and boy are lovers ,They can be siblings,Friends, cousins,colleagues and etc.

**Assassin** · 08-31-2018, 01:23 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello Friends,

Our society push us to do the things which we hate to do.
Sometimes we have to do them for our family.

What are the things society expect you to do which you hate to do?

The behaviour we need change for our relatives is push by the family. I need to control my anger most of the times. Even though it appears unexpectedly. The society wants everyone to never react our emotions for anything.

**Lorraine** · 09-11-2018, 05:34 PM

I hate for people treating for girls and boys in two different ways.
So in our home my brother have the permission to travel overnight with friends an because of a girl I have to be home by 6 p.m.
I like to walk with friends at night. But because of that I never got that chnace.

**Bhavya** · 09-12-2018, 12:21 PM

Originally Posted by Lorraine

I hate for people treating for girls and boys in two different ways.
So in our home my brother have the permission to travel overnight with friends an because of a girl I have to be home by 6 p.m.
I like to walk with friends at night. But because of that I never got that chnace.

In our country ,Most of the family have this restriction for girls,our parents should understand we girls also should have same freedom like boys.

**Moana** · 09-12-2018, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

In our country ,Most of the family have this restriction for girls,our parents should understand we girls also should have same freedom like boys.

Your point does make sense, but have a question for you! Why do you really think parents are restricting limiting our freedom, it is because they care for us. What would really happen once if we're granted to have freedom like boys?
Maybe we should think from a parent's perspective as well, this is how I feel.

**Bhavya** · 09-14-2018, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by Moana

Your point does make sense, but have a question for you! Why do you really think parents are restricting limiting our freedom, it is because they care for us. What would really happen once if we're granted to have freedom like boys?
Maybe we should think from a parent's perspective as well, this is how I feel.

If our parents have full trust in us they will give us the freedom. It's in our hand as well we have to make them to trust us.