We say kindness doesn't have a motive. We speak of selfless acts of love.
So in short, we consider kindness to be selfless. Something that does NOT have selfishness in it.
But if doing something to a person makes you happy, then you do have a motive, right?
For example,
If you give your food to a beggar who doesn't have food, you'd be happy to see him/her eating that food, and that somehow makes you feel better about yourself, doesn't it?
So every kindness has this extra 'feeling good' element which comes under selfishness... Am I wrong in this?