You start being selfish and it helps. You learn the art of saying ‘No’ to your friends, to situations that no longer serve you, deserve you. You prioritize yourself, and it starts making you happy.
I agree with everything except being selfish,I think it will make us introvert and alone, which will lead to self destroy.
You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.
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