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    What something you've learned from your first heartbreak?

    Hello Friends,

    When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.


    What you have learned from your first heart break?
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    Hello Friends,

    When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.


    What you have learned from your first heart break?

    You start being selfish and it helps. You learn the art of saying ‘No’ to your friends, to situations that no longer serve you, deserve you. You prioritize yourself, and it starts making you happy.
    Your Last Mistake Is Your Best Teacher

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shivani View Post
    You start being selfish and it helps. You learn the art of saying ‘No’ to your friends, to situations that no longer serve you, deserve you. You prioritize yourself, and it starts making you happy.
    I agree with everything except being selfish,I think it will make us introvert and alone, which will lead to self destroy.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    Hello Friends,

    When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.


    What you have learned from your first heart break?
    First of all. It doesn't mean that everybody who falls in love feels good , or forget pain and tension.. when your are in a toxic relationship , it will happier and relaxed to breakup.
    Otherwise if you had many romantic happy moments it will haunt you after the break up. About the lessons , we will be more alert about falling in love for the next time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karikaalan View Post
    First of all. It doesn't mean that everybody who falls in love feels good , our forget pain and tension.. when your are in a toxic relationship , it will happier and relaxed to breakup.
    Otherwise if you had many romantic happy moments it will haunt you after the break up. About the lessons , we will be more alert about falling in love for the next time.
    Agree it's better to breakup than being in toxic relationship,I think after a breakup people set a barrier around them to protect from another breakup and pain and as you said they become more alert to enter into new relationship.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    I agree with everything except being selfish,I think it will make us introvert and alone, which will lead to self destroy.
    Yes true that, it will make us an introvert, stop us interacting from people! The one thing that I learned from a heart break is to never trust anyone!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Karikaalan View Post
    First of all. It doesn't mean that everybody who falls in love feels good , or forget pain and tension.. when your are in a toxic relationship , it will happier and relaxed to breakup.
    Otherwise if you had many romantic happy moments it will haunt you after the break up. About the lessons , we will be more alert about falling in love for the next time.
    True totally true lines, breaking up from a toxic relationship is healthy
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shivani View Post
    Yes true that, it will make us an introvert, stop us interacting from people! The one thing that I learned from a heart break is to never trust anyone!
    By isolating yourself you're not safeguarding yourself actually you are giving punishment to yourself,In Fact by socializing with people you can easily come out of your breakup, It's obivious to having trust issues after breakup, I would say time will heal everything.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    By isolating yourself you're not safeguarding yourself actually you are giving punishment to yourself,In Fact by socializing with people you can easily come out of your breakup, It's obivious to having trust issues after breakup, I would say time will heal everything.
    Time will heal everting the perfect answer, true but even though we mingle up with people we love at some point our break up memories would hit us all in sudden!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shivani View Post
    Time will heal everting the perfect answer, true but even though we mingle up with people we love at some point our break up memories would hit us all in sudden!
    That's why I said time will heal everything, Give yourself enough time to heal.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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