In my own family I am always pressurized to behave according to their expectation. My mom always told me to not to fall in love or be friend with boys. But when my cousin sister fall in love, she didn't oppose it and said she can because she is a medical student and she is loving a medical student so it's acceptable. However now also she is saying that I can't fall in love with someone. She think If I love someone society will talk bad about me because my father is no more in this world.

Why this society and familes putting so much restrictions to girls specially for fatherless girls?

What kind of family and society pressure you are facing as a girl?