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  1. 10-29-2018, 02:21 PM #1
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    You got my point Adiza, nowadays girls equally educated and independent like men so there is no need for the dowry. our society should change so many old customs. Those were only applicable to the old lifestyle not fit with our current lifestyle.but from the above comments I can say our generation men are against the dowry system. So there is a hope that it will be completely get vanished from our society.
    Our generation men are still sons of previous generation parents. So you can't be sure that they will not ask dowry. In most families dowry decision belongs to parents. Whether children agree or not, parents force to get dowry from bride family.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adiza View Post
    Our generation men are still sons of previous generation parents. So you can't be sure that they will not ask dowry. In most families dowry decision belongs to parents. Whether children agree or not, parents force to get dowry from bride family.
    True, When it's come to arrange marriage parents are the decision makers. Some men ask dowry for their parents even though they didn't like it. Men should brave enough to fight for their principles and values.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    True, When it's come to arrange marriage parents are the decision makers. Some men ask dowry for their parents even though they didn't like it. Men should brave enough to fight for their principles and values.
    The sad part is that love cum arranged marriage is also included in this dowry system.I have seen some such people, why can't the guy compromise their parents not to ask for dowry if she really loves the girl?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Helena View Post
    The sad part is that love cum arranged marriage is also included in this dowry system.I have seen some such people, why can't the guy compromise their parents not to ask for dowry if she really loves the girl?
    Maybe he is bounded with all other decision of their parents because they have accepted the girl for their son.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adiza View Post
    Maybe he is bounded with all other decision of their parents because they have accepted the girl for their son.
    Maybe who knows what they think, only the men can answer this question
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