Well, this is interesting. I've a lot of male friends and don't judge me if I say I feel much comfortable with them than with girls. With them, there's no pretense and jealousy..They say everything to my face and I trust them with my life.
And it's friendship and not to confuse with love. I feel much more like myself when I'm with my boys. I feel the independence and security at the same time. And again, I'm not blaming girls. It's just when I'm with girls, there are certain things expected out of me as a girl. I know I'm weird. But I feel like a cool weirdo with my boys. I'm a girl, but I can't pretend to be soft and delicate when I myself can handle the rough edges of life. When I do such things, i often get this "what are you trying to prove by doing this?" question.
All I can say is my close friends are boys and they are more like my family. Even my mother trusts me with them, coz she knows how they are.
Sometimes, they even forget that I'm a girl.(lol). Anyway, I know my boys and I know they'll be in my life teasing me while taking care of me.
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