Getting married at early 20s is good or bad?

**Shana** · 11-07-2018, 01:30 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Our 20s are a time to study about ourselves and to shape a life for ourselves that endures and fulfils us. That doesn’t mean we can’t date/love during that period because most of us definitely should do it, But Nowadays people getting married in their early 20s. What do you think of getting into a big commitment like marriage at your early 20s is a good or bad Idea?

Definitely bad in my POV. maybe it's good biology-wise for reproduction process and all. But I hardly think any person has the maturity to lead a life with someone at that age. I personally wasn't so much matured in mind at that age and as far as I know all the girls my age weren't. Being in a relationship requires some kind of deep thinking ability, if not it could lead to a toxic or abusive relationship.

**Bhavya** · 11-07-2018, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by Shana

Definitely bad in my POV. maybe it's good biology-wise for reproduction process and all. But I hardly think any person has the maturity to lead a life with someone at that age. I personally wasn't so much matured in mind at that age and as far as I know all the girls my age weren't. Being in a relationship requires some kind of deep thinking ability, if not it could lead to a toxic or abusive relationship.

True Shana, Some of us are not matured in our early 20's and I personally believe that we should get married when mentally ready to enter into a big commitment and responsibility. But as you said doctors suggest that girls should get married before their 30's otherwise they may have to face fertilization issues.