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    Unhappy Are we judging the girls who get married soon?

    I've had friends who get married since the age of 18 and I've seen people judge those girls as ambition-less. And we are the ones who talk about feminism and equality.
    Why do we get such mind set about those girls who like being married as they have nothing better to do?
    Whose fault is that? If a girl does what she wants, why are we so insisting on judging them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shana View Post
    I've had friends who get married since the age of 18 and I've seen people judge those girls as ambition-less. And we are the ones who talk about feminism and equality.
    Why do we get such mind set about those girls who like being married as they have nothing better to do?
    Whose fault is that? If a girl does what she wants, why are we so insisting on judging them?
    Yeah I've seen the same behaviors as well, In fact those girls are more courageous ones Because they took the big responsibility in a very young age.Everyone have the right to live their life the way they want live. It's high time our people should change their mindset.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    Yeah I've seen the same behaviors as well, In fact those girls are more courageous ones Because they took the big responsibility in a very young age.Everyone have the right to live their life the way they want live. It's high time our people should change their mindset.
    Exactly..Even those who call themselves feminists have this false notion of girls who get married so young. Every girl has a right to choose how to live her life. If she chooses to become a lawyer,it's fine. Or a wrestler, it's fine as well. But if she becomes a house wife, it's NOT fine in the eyes of society.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shana View Post
    Exactly..Even those who call themselves feminists have this false notion of girls who get married so young. Every girl has a right to choose how to live her life. If she chooses to become a lawyer,it's fine. Or a wrestler, it's fine as well. But if she becomes a house wife, it's NOT fine in the eyes of society.

    This is the sad reality of our society. The have their own framework about life and trying to fit everyone in that frame. They need to understand that each and every one of us has our own life to live in our own ways.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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