How To Be Happy Alone and Enjoy Life!

**Bhavya** · 07-22-2019, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by Katren

I'm a sensitive person Bhavya, when I try to calm myself, I unable to do that, still i have more pain in my soul, hereafter i love to do it whatever it is. I never expect any others love or friendship. I feel very bad without them, but I wanna prepare myself to for it, that will be helpful to improve myself. Otherwise, I will feel down. They know very well about my weakness, That's why they are hurting me badly. Every situation teach me a lot. I wanna change myself.

Nobody understands me or knows my feelings. That is exactly make me feel lonely. I feel worthless and unlovable

Katren , Don't allow your negative feeling to consume you. Every person in this world are worthy no one can be us. everyone of us are unique in our own way. From your talks one thing is sure, they are your close buddies. put your hurt and ego down and just have a direct talk with them maybe the problem will be short out.Still there are people who love you just think about them. I am also sensitive person but I never vulnerably show my emotions or feelings to others because some people couldn't understand it and other people take advantage of it. So I always keep my emotion closed. I know talking is easy than doing but give it a try, It will help you.

**tripidea** · 07-22-2019, 12:47 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren , Don't allow your negative feeling to consume you. Every person in this world are worthy no one can be us. everyone of us are unique in our own way. From your talks one thing is sure, they are your close buddies. put your hurt and ego down and just have a direct talk with them maybe the problem will be short out.Still there are people who love you just think about them. I am also sensitive person but I never vulnerably show my emotions or feelings to others because some people couldn't understand it and other people take advantage of it. So I always keep my emotion closed. I know talking is easy than doing but give it a try, It will help you.

Why we want talk with our haters? They use us for purpose only so if we know their mindset. we need to leave from them, If we'll talk with them directly or through someone that time they see us as a slaves, so we don't need to down our ego and talk with them.

We can live our life without anyone because our life is not depend on others, this world have lot of things for us to enjoy our life lonely, so leave from others and live your life without anyone.

**Bhavya** · 07-22-2019, 01:06 PM

Originally Posted by tripidea

Why we want talk with our haters? They use us for purpose only so if we know their mindset. we need to leave from them, If we'll talk with them directly or through someone that time they see us as a slaves, so we don't need to down our ego and talk with them.

We can live our life without anyone because our life is not depend on others, this world have lot of things for us to enjoy our life lonely, so leave from others and live your life without anyone.

If it's our haters there is no need to talk with them. But it's always good to keep our haters near us because they will keep on track our achievements and failures. On the other hand If they are our friends we need to talk and clear our misunderstandings.

Every person in this world living our life alone so we lead our life without anyone because in our life journey everyone is a co-passenger to us they will come with us for a certain period of time only.

**tripidea** · 07-22-2019, 01:14 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

If it's our haters there is no need to talk with them. But it's always good to keep our haters near us because they will keep on track our achievements and failures. On the other hand If they are our friends we need to talk and clear our misunderstandings.

Every person in this world living our life alone so we lead our life without anyone because in our life journey everyone is a co-passenger to us they will come with us for a certain period of time only.

Friends can't understand us in a wrong way, if someone did not understand us they can't be our friends. So don't trust others but observe them always for your own safety.

Someone try to involve in our life at that time we trust them, But in future they can pull down and use us. So we need to take care of our self.

**Bhavya** · 07-22-2019, 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by tripidea

Friends can't understand us in a wrong way, if someone did not understand us they can't be our friends. So don't trust others but observe them always for your own safety.

Someone try to involve in our life at that time we trust them, But in future they can pull down and use us. So we need to take care of our self.

Agree with your point, true friends won't understand us wrongly. And you are right we always need to aware of our surroundings then only we can safeguard ourselves.

**Katren** · 07-22-2019, 02:02 PM

Originally Posted by tripidea

Friends can't understand us in a wrong way, if someone did not understand us they can't be our friends. So don't trust others but observe them always for your own safety.

Someone try to involve in our life at that time we trust them, But in future they can pull down and use us. So we need to take care of our self.

Yes, absolutely correct. the thing is Firstly we need to figure it out the reason, maybe the misunderstanding or any other reasons. It could be that you feel you can't be yourself around these people or feel unwanted. Once we find the reason we can find a way to work on that

anyhow, from this, I have learned that I should be happy and forget about those things and focus on the goods thing that makes me happy to keep me busy always.

**Katren** · 07-22-2019, 01:24 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

If it's our haters there is no need to talk with them. But it's always good to keep our haters near us because they will keep on track our achievements and failures. On the other hand If they are our friends we need to talk and clear our misunderstandings.

Every person in this world living our life alone so we lead our life without anyone because in our life journey everyone is a co-passenger to us they will come with us for a certain period of time only.

Yes, you're right. we can live our life without others, but I'm a different person from others. I have multiple friends, I fixed in my mind that I need them in my life, that's the biggest problem and i'm unable to digest this hurt. But I will be fine soon because I have learnt a lot from them. I always thinking in others perspective, but they don't even care about me. I think, expectation is my fault right? you know one thing, we can understand the difference between loneliness and being alone. I have no Ego or anything. Several time I came from my Ego and sacrifice myself only for my friends which I even didn't do for my family. but they didn't care about my feelings, The reason is a simple misunderstanding, but I trust them blindly but they even don't think about how they hurt me. I call it emotionally lonely.

you simply said, in our life journey everyone is a co-passenger to us they will come with us for a certain period of time only. True friendship is not like that. What do you think about the friendship, there is no Ego, no expectation or anything, that's the "TRUE FRIENDSHIP", But when it comes to my circle, there is ego and a lot of expectation and need more help from me. It's not fair. No need this kind of f***ing people.

**Bhavya** · 07-22-2019, 03:00 PM

Originally Posted by Katren

Yes, you're right. we can live our life without others, but I'm a different person from others. I have multiple friends, I fixed in my mind that I need them in my life, that's the biggest problem and i'm unable to digest this hurt. But I will be fine soon because I have learnt a lot from them. I always thinking in others perspective, but they don't even care about me. I think, expectation is my fault right? you know one thing, we can understand the difference between loneliness and being alone. I have no Ego or anything. Several time I came from my Ego and sacrifice myself only for my friends which I even didn't do for my family. but they didn't care about my feelings, The reason is a simple misunderstanding, but I trust them blindly but they even don't think about how they hurt me. I call it emotionally lonely.

you simply said, in our life journey everyone is a co-passenger to us they will come with us for a certain period of time only. True friendship is not like that. What do you think about the friendship, there is no Ego, no expectation or anything, that's the "TRUE FRIENDSHIP", But when it comes to my circle, there is ego and a lot of expectation and need more help from me. It's not fair. No need this kind of f***ing people.

I can understand you are emotionally hurt from their behaviors, I would say one thing. It's up to you whether you want their relationship or let go and move on with your own life. One more thing If you help someone do it selflessly and don't expect them to remember it because people always forget the good things we did to them and remember the tiny problems or issues we caused to them.

**Katren** · 07-22-2019, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren , Don't allow your negative feeling to consume you. Every person in this world are worthy no one can be us. everyone of us are unique in our own way. From your talks one thing is sure, they are your close buddies. put your hurt and ego down and just have a direct talk with them maybe the problem will be short out.Still there are people who love you just think about them. I am also sensitive person but I never vulnerably show my emotions or feelings to others because some people couldn't understand it and other people take advantage of it. So I always keep my emotion closed. I know talking is easy than doing but give it a try, It will help you.

It's not my negative thought. I'm telling here the truth. In my perspective, there is nothing important to have the number of friends that matters but the quality of the relationship. It is important to socialize and also need to have close friends that can share our troubles and lighten our load. but in my circle, I haven't that kind of people, not all friends. only a few of them. As you mentioned you closed your emotions. actually that will be fine. I need to follow this. Thanks for your advise. All are hurting me emotionally. that's my weak point, need to be changed as soon.

**tripidea** · 07-22-2019, 01:22 PM

Originally Posted by Katren

It's not my negative thought. I'm telling here the truth. In my perspective, there is nothing important to have the number of friends that matters but the quality of the relationship. It is important to socialize and also need to have close friends that can share our troubles and lighten our load. but in my circle, I haven't that kind of people, not all friends. only a few of them. As you mentioned you closed your emotions. actually that will be fine. I need to follow this. Thanks for your advise. All are hurting me emotionally. that's my week point, need to be changed as soon.

Why you want to close your feelings, you don't live for others your life only for you so don't control your emotions and feelings, if you like to expose your feeling lonely or in-front of others do it, don't live for others. live your life happily in-front of your friends.