Thread: How To Be Happy Alone and Enjoy Life!

Do you think, is this possible? yes, of course, Loneliness is a different feeling I know this feeling very well. Actually, life is very short and God gave so many things to do and make our life happy. Recently, I noticed, there are people who badly hurting me for silly reasons maybe they don't have any reason but they are acting with their negative mindsets. I knew very well them. It's not a big deal to solve these kinds of problems. But they are playing with my feelings and friendship. I don't want to blame them because still I feel they are my friends.But they are not treating like that. It seems, they only came to me for their benefits and left me. Why they are doing like this? Do you feel like this, please share your thoughts here, I wanna avoid this kind of unwanted stress in my life.

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren,

It's normal in life. Don't become too attached with anyone and don't have any expectation from others. Just be yourself and act with kindness. When we have attachments and expectations we will end up hurting ourselves. And yes we can be alone and happy.It's simple just do what your heart says,take care of your own self , love your self. you will be happy. Remember your happiness depend on yourself not on other people. Don't let others to ruin your happiness.

I'm a sensitive person Bhavya, when I try to calm myself, I unable to do that, still i have more pain in my soul, hereafter i love to do it whatever it is. I never expect any others love or friendship. I feel very bad without them, but I wanna prepare myself to for it, that will be helpful to improve myself. Otherwise, I will feel down. They know very well about my weakness, That's why they are hurting me badly. Every situation teach me a lot. I wanna change myself.

Nobody understands me or knows my feelings. That is exactly make me feel lonely. I feel worthless and unlovable

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren , Don't allow your negative feeling to consume you. Every person in this world are worthy no one can be us. everyone of us are unique in our own way. From your talks one thing is sure, they are your close buddies. put your hurt and ego down and just have a direct talk with them maybe the problem will be short out.Still there are people who love you just think about them. I am also sensitive person but I never vulnerably show my emotions or feelings to others because some people couldn't understand it and other people take advantage of it. So I always keep my emotion closed. I know talking is easy than doing but give it a try, It will help you.

Why we want talk with our haters? They use us for purpose only so if we know their mindset. we need to leave from them, If we'll talk with them directly or through someone that time they see us as a slaves, so we don't need to down our ego and talk with them.

We can live our life without anyone because our life is not depend on others, this world have lot of things for us to enjoy our life lonely, so leave from others and live your life without anyone.

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren , Don't allow your negative feeling to consume you. Every person in this world are worthy no one can be us. everyone of us are unique in our own way. From your talks one thing is sure, they are your close buddies. put your hurt and ego down and just have a direct talk with them maybe the problem will be short out.Still there are people who love you just think about them. I am also sensitive person but I never vulnerably show my emotions or feelings to others because some people couldn't understand it and other people take advantage of it. So I always keep my emotion closed. I know talking is easy than doing but give it a try, It will help you.

It's not my negative thought. I'm telling here the truth. In my perspective, there is nothing important to have the number of friends that matters but the quality of the relationship. It is important to socialize and also need to have close friends that can share our troubles and lighten our load. but in my circle, I haven't that kind of people, not all friends. only a few of them. As you mentioned you closed your emotions. actually that will be fine. I need to follow this. Thanks for your advise. All are hurting me emotionally. that's my weak point, need to be changed as soon.

Originally Posted by Katren

It's not my negative thought. I'm telling here the truth. In my perspective, there is nothing important to have the number of friends that matters but the quality of the relationship. It is important to socialize and also need to have close friends that can share our troubles and lighten our load. but in my circle, I haven't that kind of people, not all friends. only a few of them. As you mentioned you closed your emotions. actually that will be fine. I need to follow this. Thanks for your advise. All are hurting me emotionally. that's my week point, need to be changed as soon.

Why you want to close your feelings, you don't live for others your life only for you so don't control your emotions and feelings, if you like to expose your feeling lonely or in-front of others do it, don't live for others. live your life happily in-front of your friends.

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren,

It's normal in life. Don't become too attached with anyone and don't have any expectation from others. Just be yourself and act with kindness. When we have attachments and expectations we will end up hurting ourselves. And yes we can be alone and happy.It's simple just do what your heart says,take care of your own self , love your self. you will be happy. Remember your happiness depend on yourself not on other people. Don't let others to ruin your happiness.

You are right, but I have a doubt how can a person be happy in solitude?