Often times we put blame on ourselves for the way we live our lives because they are not as perfect as we wish them to be. We compare our lives with others and come to the conclusion that our lives pale in comparison with them.Here are the 14 common things that we tend to shame ourselves which should be stop.

1. Our career paths and choices
2. Our lack of ability in certain things
3. Wanting to have some alone time
4. Our choice of friends and partners
5. About our background and identity
6. Our diet and eating habit
7. Our relationship status
8. Being different from others
9. The things we can and can't afford to buy
10. Our body- shape,size or weight
11. Our personal interests
12. Being emotional and sentiment
13. Our dressing sense
14. Being unable to conceive