True Ritika, selfless giving is the best satisfying feeling you can feel ever. And you are right not everyone can be kind-heart person.When started to give without expectation then we won't affected by others wrong behaviors.
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So we have lots of members in this group ;) , And you are right when we say yes they will come back to us again and again. Nowadays I also learn to say no but yet need lots of improvements. Because after saying no I feel terrible I think with time I will get use to it.
True Shan this is the exact case with me, I usually didn't get any support ,motivation,love, care or understanding for myself when I need them the most.So whenever someone expect support ,motivation,love, care or understanding from me I always give those things to them because i know the terrible feeling when you don't receive them.But still I am alone when I need support ,motivation,love, care or understanding. I think god listed me in the giving group not in the receiving group.
Dhiya, earlier I also get hurt when people forget my help and bad mouth me. But later I understand it's their character and it's nothing to do with me. their words and actions define them not me. So I stop worrying about those people and started to live my life the way I want to live :)