Why most of the people have possessiveness?

**COD** · 12-06-2019, 09:37 AM

Most of the people have possessiveness. Maybe your friend or relative, if you have to talk to other people they will get jealous. It's like possessiveness. What do you think about this? Possessiveness is good or bed?

**Vaishnavi** · 12-06-2019, 05:36 PM

My opinion, possessiveness is good because it is natural for those who truly love you.they think that you should only be in love with them, It's not bad?

**kanak** · 12-06-2019, 05:49 PM

Some time is Possessiveness is good Sometime Bad. My point is good possessiveness will help us to improve ourselves. So possessiveness is good for people.

**Katren** · 12-07-2019, 12:09 PM

Originally Posted by Wanot

Most of the people have possessiveness. Maybe your friend or relative, if you have to talk to other people they will get jealous. It's like possessiveness. What do you think about this? Possessiveness is good or bed?

The main reason is they are afraid of losing them. who are truly like you so much and caring you well, they will definitely have the possessiveness. I met so many people in my life as well. I hope you already in this circle, Am I right?

**Bhavya** · 12-07-2019, 12:18 PM

Originally Posted by Wanot

Most of the people have possessiveness. Maybe your friend or relative, if you have to talk to other people they will get jealous. It's like possessiveness. What do you think about this? Possessiveness is good or bed?

In my opinion little possiveness is important for any relationship it will spice up your affection and bond,but it shouldn't become odd.

**Vaishnavi** · 12-07-2019, 12:28 PM

Originally Posted by Katren

The main reason is they are afraid of losing them. who are truly like you so much and caring you well, they will definitely have the possessiveness. I met so many people in my life as well. I hope you already in this circle, Am I right?

Yes, Katren, I am also like that, but they didn't understand that. They miss understanding that. How we can explain to them? If you know any way could you please share with me?

**Bhavya** · 02-05-2020, 11:35 AM

Originally Posted by Vaishnavi

My opinion, possessiveness is good because it is natural for those who truly love you.they think that you should only be in love with them, It's not bad?

Agree Vaishnavi, we have possiveness for the people we love. But to be honest we can't expect them to give all their love and affection to us only. because we all have many people in our lives who crave for our affection and love. So craving for their for us only is not bad but it's not logically reasonable, even though love is unreasonable

**Bhavya** · 02-05-2020, 11:43 AM

Originally Posted by Katren

The main reason is they are afraid of losing them. who are truly like you so much and caring you well, they will definitely have the possessiveness. I met so many people in my life as well. I hope you already in this circle, Am I right?

Not only the fear of loosing, as a human we all crave for love and affection. So when it comes to our loved ones we don't want to share the love and affection we are getting from them.That's why all these possiveness.