Falling in love even after knowing your family won't accept it!

**Karikaalan** · 06-14-2018, 04:24 AM

Originally Posted by Helena

I have seen many of my friends who have fallen in love with a guy/girl even after knowing that their parents won't accept them! This leads them to stressful situations and they have even faced many problems in their family. I have also heard about some people who have attempted suicides as well��

In my point of view , it's better to avoid such decisions.This can reduce the problems and can save their life as well.

Why do people take these type of decisions consciously? Discuss your views.

Why can't the family accept the choice of their children. Our parents should know that marriage is a right of every individual. Their duty is to guide the children to find her soulmate with whom they will be happy. That's all. Caste system and social status plays an important negative role in our soceity.

**Bhavya** · 06-14-2018, 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Why can't the family accept the choice of their children. Our parents should know that marriage is a right of every individual. Their duty is to guide the children to find her soulmate with whom they will be happy. That's all. Caste system and social status plays an important negative role in our soceity.

Agree with you, But if the children choose the wrong person ( Bad person according to personality and behavior).
Then parents have the full rights to stop the children from destroying their life.

**Helena** · 06-15-2018, 01:16 PM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Agree with you, But if the children choose the wrong person ( Bad person according to personality and behavior).
Then parents have the full rights to stop the children from destroying their life.

You are absolutely right Bhavya. Parents cares more about their children other than anyone else

**Helena** · 06-15-2018, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Why can't the family accept the choice of their children. Our parents should know that marriage is a right of every individual. Their duty is to guide the children to find her soulmate with whom they will be happy. That's all. Caste system and social status plays an important negative role in our soceity.

It's because the parents are always more keen about their children's life.They don't want to push their life into struggle consciously!I'm not talking about those who debate on caste, but what if their child falls in love with an arrogant or an abusive person?