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Love, Lust and Attachment : The real big deals of life

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There is a famous saying and it goes as''Lust feels like love until it's time to make a sacrifice''.
The feelings we get while meeting someone new is pretty hard to understand at times. We sometimes get that biological or even spiritual interaction with people we meet.

At least once in our lifetime we all might have met or will meet someone and feel like we always want to be around them. When they are around they make us nervous, make us not to think straight, unconscious about our own thoughts and make us feel overwhelmed.

When our friends are in a relationship, we are normally able to figure out even a mile off what they are actually feeling is whether it is a sexual attraction or love. But, when it comes to ourselves we tend to fall into the trap, we are unable to get things quite as clearly.



Is lust the first stage of love?




Lust, is eventually a physical attraction that leads to an urge for sexual desire, hopefully, thanks to the rush of the hormones. While Love, on the other hand, is a deep unexplained feeling of affection that you get over another person. It is something you do not get over everyone that lasts forever which in turn goes beyond the surface and turns out to end in an emotional attachment.

While some believe that after having sex for the first time with the person they love might make them be even more attached to them but that is not always the case. In fact, sometimes solve can lead to falling in love. However, real love is based on understanding, it requires more time to get to know each other.


What are the signs you could watch for?


  • Always go with your gut feeling, do as it says.
  • After spending time together, if you have that discomfort or drained feeling then it is time to let go of the person, it means you are not fully into the person.
  • You have this discomfort of how this person is interacting and treating you, but you will have that feeling or thought of being pushed away by him or her if you mention it.
  • You are not comfy with the attraction, you start feeling destructive or dark


How far is attachment true?



What is an attachment?

Attachment is the bond that in turn keeps partners together for a period of time long enough to make and raise children. This is where the real deal begins. Hormones play a major role in this oxytocin and vasopressin. It differs in as experiencing a strong sexual attraction towards the partner, having sex first and then falling in love or slowly getting deeply attached to the individual after knowing the person for a while.


Why we unconsciously behave how we do when it comes to Lust, Love, and Attachment!





Long-term relationships over a period of time, of all kinds, tend to lose the desire for sex over time that was once felt at the starting of the relationship, (felt at the first two years of relationship).

At the end of the day, our brain cannot maintain this speed state for a long time.
Many of us would die of sexual exhaustion if lust keeps on growing endlessly in a relationship. We would not get to concentrate anything else except the person we were attached physically as well as mentally.
This could be really a big deal. After all, love is a part of our life and Lust/Sex just plays a role in it. No matter what stage you are in life, it is always important to live, love - most of all to spread the love.


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