Drinking on occasion...Is that right?

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05-17-2018, 09:19 PM
Shana

Drinking on occasion...Is that right?

All my life, I've seen men drunkards and people who drink on special occasion. We all know what alcoholism would bring about and we are aware of its bad effects. But still, people drink for several reasons as,

1) Peer pressure
2) Prestige
3) Drowning their sorrows
4) Enjoying their happiness
5) etc etc..

Is that acceptable? I mean, even in every sector of work, it's becoming usual to drink alcohol. Why is that?

Why are we accepting such a habit as something of norm?
Instead of prohibiting drinking, we're going along with it. Is this what normalcy is nowadays?question:;;:)
05-25-2018, 01:34 AM
Karikaalan

Interesting thing to discuss Shana!
Last 3 months as I wanted to experiment and experience the effect of alchohol , I have drank with my mates about 4 times. I don't think drinking will drown the sorrows or bring happiness.. I may be wrong , but as I understood in my very few experience I feel it just expand the mood we are in. Thrice of the occasion I started to motivate my friends and felt bad about the situation of my community. Once I just started talk about cinema .
It didn't make me to think about hitting others. I didn't think about raping after being drunken .. I think these are some lies about drinking.. I have much more to explore. Will update you if I got some more understanding on the thing because I haven't drink too much up to losing control.. I have to try that soon.
05-25-2018, 02:05 AM
Ritika

People drink for several reason as you mentioned. But if they took it too far and become alcoholic then that is biggest part we have to worry about. Drinking isn't a bad thing to do, same as we eat toffee knowing that we might get diabetes and eating fried chicken very often knowing we might die from heart attack. But toffee and fried chicken isn't going to hurt anybody other than our-self where alcohol addiction leads to abuses and hurt others emotionally and mentally.
05-25-2018, 01:13 PM
Bhavya

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I have much more to explore. Will update you if I got some more understanding on the thing because I haven't drink too much up to losing control.. I have to try that soon.

@Karikaalan Don't explore these kind of things, Now you just start it as a experiment if you loose your self control it will become your addiction/habit so please don't spoil your health and time in it.
Explore in your passion.It's more healthier :)
05-25-2018, 01:52 PM
Assassin

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Originally Posted by Shana

All my life, I've seen men drunkards and people who drink on special occasion. We all know what alcoholism would bring about and we are aware of its bad effects. But still, people drink for several reasons as,

1) Peer pressure
2) Prestige
3) Drowning their sorrows
4) Enjoying their happiness
5) etc etc..

Is that acceptable? I mean, even in every sector of work, it's becoming usual to drink alcohol. Why is that?

Why are we accepting such a habit as something of norm?
Instead of prohibiting drinking, we're going along with it. Is this what normalcy is nowadays?question:;;:)

Interesting topic to discuss, Drinking in occasion is wrong I felt because my prestige is depend on being without drinking in the event. The point you mention are not considerable for a reason of drinking, those are just a facts that say by the drinkers. If It's a party with a comfort zone of people of mine I'll go with drinking and I know the limit. Just to join the party.
05-25-2018, 02:55 PM
Arthi

In my opinion whether he alcoholic or not its depends on the person and his family but they should aware about what they are doing in public. Anyone don't have any rights to disturb others life so they should in control of their selves. Drinking is injuries to health there is no alternative comment for it.
05-25-2018, 03:30 PM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Arthi

In my opinion whether he alcoholic or not its depends on the person and his family but they should aware about what they are doing in public. Anyone don't have any rights to disturb others life so they should in control of their selves. Drinking is injuries to health there is no alternative comment for it.

Drinkiing on occasions is fine something like wine, because in cold foreign countries people have to drink in order to maintain their health( wine) so drinking in occasions are fine i guess!
05-25-2018, 11:58 PM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Interesting thing to discuss Shana!
Last 3 months as I wanted to experiment and experience the effect of alchohol , I have drank with my mates about 4 times. I don't think drinking will drown the sorrows or bring happiness.. I may be wrong , but as I understood in my very few experience I feel it just expand the mood we are in. Thrice of the occasion I started to motivate my friends and felt bad about the situation of my community. Once I just started talk about cinema .
It didn't make me to think about hitting others. I didn't think about raping after being drunken .. I think these are some lies about drinking.. I have much more to explore. Will update you if I got some more understanding on the thing because I haven't drink too much up to losing control.. I have to try that soon.

Seriously? You're supporting that habit?
Wow! We all know better than that to encourage others to drink. And no offense, but I hate or let's say I 'm physically repulsed by drunkards.
Anyway, My question is why do you do it? What draws you in?
And mainly, why are you so intent on trying it for the sake of experience? It's an addiction, but you're doing it. May I know why?
05-26-2018, 12:01 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by assassin

Interesting topic to discuss, Drinking in occasion is wrong I felt because my prestige is depend on being without drinking in the event. The point you mention are not considerable for a reason of drinking, those are just a facts that say by the drinkers. If It's a party with a comfort zone of people of mine I'll go with drinking and I know the limit. Just to join the party.

So you admit yourself that you drink for your prestige?
Then that means you take no pleasure in drinking, but you do that anyway to prove yourself equal to other guys?
I think we women respect men who take pride in being themselves and not doing such stunts for the sake of male ego and prestige.
Be yourself and don't try to express yourself by doing something you don't like.
05-26-2018, 12:03 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Arthi

In my opinion whether he alcoholic or not its depends on the person and his family but they should aware about what they are doing in public. Anyone don't have any rights to disturb others life so they should in control of their selves. Drinking is injuries to health there is no alternative comment for it.

Well said! People should realize that even though it's the 21st century and everyone has the right to do anything they want, we all have this social responsibility to limit ourselves from these poisonous habits..
Applicable to women as well.
05-26-2018, 12:05 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Shivani

Drinkiing on occasions is fine something like wine, because in cold foreign countries people have to drink in order to maintain their health( wine) so drinking in occasions are fine i guess!

May be. But since I'm talking about the situation of Sri Lanka getting too westernized to accept drinking as a normal fact. So regarding our country, what do you think?
05-26-2018, 02:24 PM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

@Karikaalan Don't explore these kind of things, Now you just start it as a experiment if you loose your self control it will become your addiction/habit so please don't spoil your health and time in it.
Explore in your passion.It's more healthier :)

I feel confident that I will not get addicted. I already had tried smoking and now I don't smoke . But I know how it feels like.
This is for my passion .. and thanks a lot for the care Bhavya..
05-26-2018, 02:29 PM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

Seriously? You're supporting that habit?
Wow! We all know better than that to encourage others to drink. And no offense, but I hate or let's say I 'm physically repulsed by drunkards.
Anyway, My question is why do you do it? What draws you in?
And mainly, why are you so intent on trying it for the sake of experience? It's an addiction, but you're doing it. May I know why?

I don't support drinking. It surely injurious to health and soceity. But I wanted to know why they do it How it feels like .. I will not continue it . I will not encourage any others to do it.
It is surely disgusting.
05-26-2018, 02:31 PM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

And mainly, why are you so intent on trying it for the sake of experience? It's an addiction, but you're doing it. May I know why?

As a professional writer , I need to know at least something from their point of view! Am I wrong?
05-26-2018, 08:15 PM
Bhavya

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I feel confident that I will not get addicted. I already had tried smoking and now I don't smoke . But I know how it feels like.

If you have this much of self control then it's fine

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This is for my passion .. and thanks a lot for the care Bhavya.

You are most welcome Karikaalan,Best wishes for your future endeavors :)
05-26-2018, 10:34 PM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

As a professional writer , I need to know at least something from their point of view! Am I wrong?

No, you aren't wrong. But take care of yourself.
These habits are poisonous.
05-27-2018, 08:05 AM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

No, you aren't wrong. But take care of yourself.
These habits are poisonous.

Yah I will leave it soon.. thanks 😊
05-27-2018, 10:42 PM
Assassin

[QUOTE=Shana;1955]

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So you admit yourself that you drink for your prestige?
Then that means you take no pleasure in drinking, but you do that anyway to prove yourself equal to other guys?

You didn't get my point i think, may be my reply isn't so clear. I totally disagree with a people who said the reasons you mention above. I said that my prestige is depend on not drinking in an occasion, which means i never drink on occasions. If I wish do i happens only with my buddies and I did it countable times only.

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I think we women respect men who take pride in being themselves and not doing such stunts for the sake of male ego and prestige.

I'm not mad enough to this kind of silly things to impress women, even I never try to do anything to impress any women. I respect women a lot that's the only reason I never try single shot of drink in any common occasions. There is nothing like male ego and prestige, when I went for my friend birthday party in Colombo. I have seen some girls drinking too. They think them self proud by it and start blabbering against me "girls we have a drink, and why you don't? " So go around Sri Lanka, you'll understand it's not only a male stuff.

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Be yourself and don't try to express yourself by doing something you don't like.

I'm always be myself with my own set rules. I have my very own limits in drinking as well. I never try nothing much than a beer. I never exceed more than one. I never try drinking with random people only with my close mates they were less than 5. If you tell someone I drinking they never trust you, like that I keep my reputation. I never drink in someone else money and I never give a single coin to someone to drink too. These kind of barriers I keep myself. More importantly I get into this habit on 2017 Feb and quit it on 2017 Nov to keep my sports activities clean.
05-28-2018, 03:24 AM
Shana

[QUOTE=assassin;2024]

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Originally Posted by Shana

You didn't get my point i think, may be my reply isn't so clear. I totally disagree with a people who said the reasons you mention above. I said that my prestige is depend on not drinking in an occasion, which means i never drink on occasions. If I wish do i happens only with my buddies and I did it countable times only.

I'm not mad enough to this kind of silly things to impress women, even I never try to do anything to impress any women. I respect women a lot that's the only reason I never try single shot of drink in any common occasions. There is nothing like male ego and prestige, when I went for my friend birthday party in Colombo. I have seen some girls drinking too. They think them self proud by it and start blabbering against me "girls we have a drink, and why you don't? " So go around Sri Lanka, you'll understand it's not only a male stuff.

I'm always be myself with my own set rules. I have my very own limits in drinking as well. I never try nothing much than a beer. I never exceed more than one. I never try drinking with random people only with my close mates they were less than 5. If you tell someone I drinking they never trust you, like that I keep my reputation. I never drink in someone else money and I never give a single coin to someone to drink too. These kind of barriers I keep myself. More importantly I get into this habit on 2017 Feb and quit it on 2017 Nov to keep my sports activities clean.

oops...clearly I have misunderstood your point! Anyway, it's good to know the facts you mentioned. Thanks for clarifying.
BTW, yes, nowadays, women drink as well. I'm not denying it. Their reasons for drinking go along the fake lines of misunderstood-feminism. So there's no point arguing about women who have no idea what equality actually means.