What something you've learned from your first heartbreak?

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08-20-2018, 12:47 PM
Bhavya

What something you've learned from your first heartbreak?

Hello Friends,

When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.

What you have learned from your first heart break?
08-20-2018, 01:11 PM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello Friends,

When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.

What you have learned from your first heart break?

You start being selfish and it helps. You learn the art of saying ‘No’ to your friends, to situations that no longer serve you, deserve you. You prioritize yourself, and it starts making you happy.
08-20-2018, 03:05 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Shivani

You start being selfish and it helps. You learn the art of saying ‘No’ to your friends, to situations that no longer serve you, deserve you. You prioritize yourself, and it starts making you happy.

I agree with everything except being selfish,I think it will make us introvert and alone, which will lead to self destroy.
08-26-2018, 08:57 AM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello Friends,

When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.

What you have learned from your first heart break?

First of all. It doesn't mean that everybody who falls in love feels good , or forget pain and tension.. when your are in a toxic relationship , it will happier and relaxed to breakup.
Otherwise if you had many romantic happy moments it will haunt you after the break up. About the lessons , we will be more alert about falling in love for the next time.
08-30-2018, 04:08 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

First of all. It doesn't mean that everybody who falls in love feels good , our forget pain and tension.. when your are in a toxic relationship , it will happier and relaxed to breakup.
Otherwise if you had many romantic happy moments it will haunt you after the break up. About the lessons , we will be more alert about falling in love for the next time.

Agree it's better to breakup than being in toxic relationship,I think after a breakup people set a barrier around them to protect from another breakup and pain and as you said they become more alert to enter into new relationship.
08-30-2018, 04:12 PM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

I agree with everything except being selfish,I think it will make us introvert and alone, which will lead to self destroy.

Yes true that, it will make us an introvert, stop us interacting from people! The one thing that I learned from a heart break is to never trust anyone!
08-30-2018, 04:13 PM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

First of all. It doesn't mean that everybody who falls in love feels good , or forget pain and tension.. when your are in a toxic relationship , it will happier and relaxed to breakup.
Otherwise if you had many romantic happy moments it will haunt you after the break up. About the lessons , we will be more alert about falling in love for the next time.

True totally true lines, breaking up from a toxic relationship is healthy
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08-30-2018, 05:05 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Shivani

Yes true that, it will make us an introvert, stop us interacting from people! The one thing that I learned from a heart break is to never trust anyone!

By isolating yourself you're not safeguarding yourself actually you are giving punishment to yourself,In Fact by socializing with people you can easily come out of your breakup, It's obivious to having trust issues after breakup, I would say time will heal everything.
08-31-2018, 10:05 AM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

By isolating yourself you're not safeguarding yourself actually you are giving punishment to yourself,In Fact by socializing with people you can easily come out of your breakup, It's obivious to having trust issues after breakup, I would say time will heal everything.

Time will heal everting the perfect answer, true but even though we mingle up with people we love at some point our break up memories would hit us all in sudden!
08-31-2018, 11:24 AM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Shivani

Time will heal everting the perfect answer, true but even though we mingle up with people we love at some point our break up memories would hit us all in sudden!

That's why I said time will heal everything, Give yourself enough time to heal.
08-31-2018, 01:13 PM
Assassin

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello Friends,

When you're in love,Everything seems good, You forget your pains,worries and tensions.You start to live the life of your dreams.The happiness,sorrows and everything of your lover becomes your own.But when you lose that person due to any reason. then that pain becomes inevitable,It's more than just an emotional defeat.It may teaches you some lesson as well.

What you have learned from your first heart break?

Heartbreaks not only happenes in love, i felt it first when my close friend avoids me. When you overcome that pain you'll be ultimate.
08-31-2018, 03:37 PM
Dhiya

Don't trust anyone blindly. Everyone wants to be proof them as they are good selves other than anyone. Follow your heart and don't give permission to anyone to play with your emotions and feelings. Be your self as much as you can.
This is the thing i learned from my first heart breakup.
09-01-2018, 01:29 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by assassin

Heartbreaks not only happenes in love, i felt it first when my close friend avoids me. When you overcome that pain you'll be ultimate.

Totally agree with you, Heartbreak could happen in any relationship.True when we overcome a heartbreak we become more strong and wise.
09-01-2018, 01:34 PM
Bhavya

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dhiya

Don't trust anyone blindly. Everyone wants to be proof them as they are good selves other than anyone. Follow your heart and don't give permission to anyone to play with your emotions and feelings. Be your self as much as you can.
This is the thing i learned from my first heart breakup.

Well said,We shouldn't allow anyone to play with our emotions.If we do so ,They can easily manipulate us according to their will.To avoid this situation we should always guard our emotions from others.