Ever wished you had met someone earlier?

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08-07-2018, 12:46 AM
Shana

Ever wished you had met someone earlier?

Had you wished that you met someone a bit earlier in your life?
I have had that feeling for the last 2 years on a few people I've met. It feels like I share a special connection with them, but it would have been really awesome had I met them before, so that I could have spent some more time with them...

Have you felt this feeling? Why?
08-07-2018, 06:29 AM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

Had you wished that you met someone a bit earlier in your life?
I have had that feeling for the last 2 years on a few people I've met. It feels like I share a special connection with them, but it would have been really awesome had I met them before, so that I could have spent some more time with them...

Have you felt this feeling? Why?

Yes I have felt this way... Some people who later came into my life have given me lot of confidence and positivity and met people who have same frequency of thoughts and emotions so later in my life. I meet people who are so comfortable to talk to...If these people have come earlier in my life , I would have been a better person by now . More confident , and positive.
08-07-2018, 11:57 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Yes I have felt this way... Some people who later came into my life have given me lot of confidence and positivity and met people who have same frequency of thoughts and emotions so later in my life. I meet people who are so comfortable to talk to...If these people have come earlier in my life , I would have been a better person by now . More confident , and positive.

So everyone has someone whom they wished to have met before.
But don't you think those people entered your life at the correct time? Had they known you before when you were in your bad moments, it might have made them dislike you, maybe? Or they might not be as synced with your wavelength before than you are now, does it make any sense?
even though I wished to have met some people a bit earlier, I'd like to think that had they met me earlier they might have hated me. So I'd like to think that God brought them to me at the correct time as it was supposed to.
08-07-2018, 03:59 PM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Shana

Had you wished that you met someone a bit earlier in your life?
I have had that feeling for the last 2 years on a few people I've met. It feels like I share a special connection with them, but it would have been really awesome had I met them before, so that I could have spent some more time with them...

Have you felt this feeling? Why?

Yes, I have felt the same and even told them straight away. I have met people who brought in positive vibes into me whom I have always wished to have met a bit early!
08-07-2018, 06:13 PM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

So everyone has someone whom they wished to have met before.
But don't you think those people entered your life at the correct time? Had they known you before when you were in your bad moments, it might have made them dislike you, maybe? Or they might not be as synced with your wavelength before than you are now, does it make any sense?
even though I wished to have met some people a bit earlier, I'd like to think that had they met me earlier they might have hated me. So I'd like to think that God brought them to me at the correct time as it was supposed to.

Yah. They might not have synced with my frequency. Because I was a different man then. They would be the same.. and I know that they are the best companions because of the previous experiences ..
08-08-2018, 04:39 PM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Yah. They might not have synced with my frequency. Because I was a different man then. They would be the same.. and I know that they are the best companions because of the previous experiences ..

exactly! Things like this, make me believe it destiny and fate...
Maybe things were already prepared by someone up there and I am just playing my part in the story, that's how it feels like when I meet such people.
Do you believe in destiny?
08-08-2018, 04:40 PM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Shivani

Yes, I have felt the same and even told them straight away. I have met people who brought in positive vibes into me whom I have always wished to have met a bit early!

Actually I don't tell them right away... I like to keep it to myself, coz if I say it out loud, I might jinx it and they'll leave my life.:rolleyes: So I keep shut!
08-09-2018, 10:23 PM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

exactly! Things like this, make me believe it destiny and fate...
Maybe things were already prepared by someone up there and I am just playing my part in the story, that's how it feels like when I meet such people.
Do you believe in destiny?

sometimes I have felt that I am destined for something and somethings that happened were destiny. In that way I believe in it.
08-09-2018, 10:25 PM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

exactly! Things like this, make me believe it destiny and fate...
Maybe things were already prepared by someone up there and I am just playing my part in the story, that's how it feels like when I meet such people.
Do you believe in destiny?

Thanks Shana. It gives me a positive feelings.. thanks for the nice mentoring
08-10-2018, 03:07 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

sometimes I have felt that I am destined for something and somethings that happened were destiny. In that way I believe in it.

Cool! Sometimes it feels like I'm in a theatre watching a horror drama genre film about myself when weird stuff happens.;)
There's also something called "we make our own destiny". Maybe the destiny that I believe to be constructing myself is already decided upon or is it changing as per my choices? Seems like my movie has too many alternate endings!
08-10-2018, 03:08 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

Thanks Shana. It gives me a positive feelings.. thanks for the nice mentoring

LOL! Actually, I should thank you. You're a good user to get some honest opinions from.
08-10-2018, 09:36 AM
Karikaalan

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Originally Posted by Shana

Cool! Sometimes it feels like I'm in a theatre watching a horror drama genre film about myself when weird stuff happens.;)
There's also something called "we make our own destiny". Maybe the destiny that I believe to be constructing myself is already decided upon or is it changing as per my choices? Seems like my movie has too many alternate endings!

I have a similar confusion . I used to wander about things happening . For example I am working hard towards something thinking that i am making my own destiny. But sometimes I think what if my hardwork was also a destiny? I hope you meant a similar thing ?
08-11-2018, 03:50 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Karikaalan

I have a similar confusion . I used to wander about things happening . For example I am working hard towards something thinking that i am making my own destiny. But sometimes I think what if my hardwork was also a destiny? I hope you meant a similar thing ?

Exactly! Glad everyone is confused as I am in this. Am I performing according to the pre-planned destiny or am I making my destiny as I develop?
The destiny is still on build or whatever I do to make myself better by tough paths happens according to the destiny itself? So do my choices actually have any effect on my fate?
08-13-2018, 05:24 AM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Shana

Had you wished that you met someone a bit earlier in your life?
I have had that feeling for the last 2 years on a few people I've met. It feels like I share a special connection with them, but it would have been really awesome had I met them before, so that I could have spent some more time with them...

Have you felt this feeling? Why?

Yeah I have felt like this,Some people came later in my life but they are the ones who made my life more happier and positive.I am always grateful for them.I believe in destiny that everything happens for the right reason whether it's good or bad.Every single person we come across in our life have their own role to play in our destiny.
08-13-2018, 05:58 AM
Shana

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

Yeah I have felt like this,Some people came later in my life but they are the ones who made my life more happier and positive.I am always grateful for them.I believe in destiny that everything happens for the right reason whether it's good or bad.Every single person we come across in our life have their own role to play in our destiny.

That's great! Kepp up the positivity! It's good that you are happy now!
08-18-2018, 04:51 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Shana

That's great! Kepp up the positivity! It's good that you are happy now!

Yeah sure I will, I am also glad that finally I can say I am happy with my life:)