Hello Friends,
Our society push us to do the things which we hate to do.
Sometimes we have to do them for our family.
What are the things society expect you to do which you hate to do?
Hello Friends,
Our society push us to do the things which we hate to do.
Sometimes we have to do them for our family.
What are the things society expect you to do which you hate to do?
Finishing my degree which is totally irrelevant to my job.... 😞😞Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
The very first thing is to make me behave "like a girl". I like being the way I am. I won't be the made-up doll in functions or answer every unfair stupid questions of people who never care about me or my family.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
I am a human. But people insist on forcing me to meet the characteristics that they consider to be womanly. Am I not a human? Don't I have the freedom to embrace my quirkiness? Why do I have to pretend to be the silent, meek girl? If that's not me, what is the use of pretending to be one?
I'm sure almost every parent asks their daughter not to laugh aloud, not to speak loud, to sit without hurting the chair, walk without sound etc. And I have faced reprimands from my family and relatives for not behaving like a girl. Well, I know I am a girl. Is that my problem if others can't see it?
I know it's really irritating thing,But think that you're gaining knowledge in a different field and finish your degree then you're free to follow your passion no one will question youQuote:
Originally Posted by Karikaalan
They want you to behave like a typical girl, But tell them you're not typical you are a unique and extraordinary girl, Whatever the society say be yourself , One day they will realize you are best the way you are.Quote:
The very first thing is to make me behave "like a girl". I like being the way I am. I won't be the made-up doll in functions or answer every unfair stupid questions of people who never care about me or my family.
I am a human. But people insist on forcing me to meet the characteristics that they consider to be womanly. Am I not a human? Don't I have the freedom to embrace my quirkiness? Why do I have to pretend to be the silent, meek girl? If that's not me, what is the use of pretending to be one?
Haha,I am going through this situation,It's really irritating till now my mom saying these thing to me.Quote:
I'm sure almost every parent asks their daughter not to laugh aloud, not to speak loud, to sit without hurting the chair, walk without sound etc. And I have faced reprimands from my family and relatives for not behaving like a girl. Well, I know I am a girl. Is that my problem if others can't see it?
In our society it is wrong to talk with a boy in streets, what our society wants us is o stay away from the boys1Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
That sounds weird, go with what you love that would take you to the right path!Quote:
Originally Posted by Karikaalan
yeah, some of my freds face the same problem, they are being mistaken as being tomboishQuote:
Originally Posted by Shana
This is the sad thing of our society,If a brother and sister go out in the street our society consider them as lovers :eek:,People should understand not every girl and boy are lovers ,They can be siblings,Friends, cousins,colleagues and etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shivani
The behaviour we need change for our relatives is push by the family. I need to control my anger most of the times. Even though it appears unexpectedly. The society wants everyone to never react our emotions for anything.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
Lol! I'm tired of telling them. Even if my mother accepts me, my relatives won't. They are the ones who accuse my mother of not bringing me up properly as a good girl. That is enough for my mother to question the fact of me being me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
Wanna know who invented the term "tomboy"! Really? Can't a girl be herself without being labelled as something every time? First of all, people should be made aware of how "boys" and "girls" are basically born "human".Quote:
Originally Posted by Shivani
What to do this the sad reality of society,Relatives means trouble makers:(Quote:
Originally Posted by Shana
It's fine if they are troublemakers... What to do if they talk behind my back? I just grew a thick skin for those people and I don't pay any attention to them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
Yeah ignorance is the best option, We can't stop them from "backbiting", So for our own good we should ignore those people.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shana
I hate for people treating for girls and boys in two different ways.
So in our home my brother have the permission to travel overnight with friends an because of a girl I have to be home by 6 p.m.
I like to walk with friends at night. But because of that I never got that chnace.
In our country ,Most of the family have this restriction for girls,our parents should understand we girls also should have same freedom like boys.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lorraine
Your point does make sense, but have a question for you! Why do you really think parents are restricting limiting our freedom, it is because they care for us. What would really happen once if we're granted to have freedom like boys?Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
Maybe we should think from a parent's perspective as well, this is how I feel.
If our parents have full trust in us they will give us the freedom. It's in our hand as well we have to make them to trust us.Quote:
Originally Posted by Moana
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