How to deal with jealous people?

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05-21-2018, 09:29 PM
Katren

How to deal with jealous people?

Jealousy is an extremely dangerous for us. In my perspective and my own experienced, there are some people get jealous. I don’t know why they get jealous. If you did any good thing, they won’t congratulate or encouraged me . For that, we cannot do anything to others. And the most important thing is we never expect any single motivate or encourage from others. Normally, we can’t change other's attitude and behavior. but we have the best way to deal with it is to ignore them and focus on our productive things, such as improving ourselves by doing and learning useful things and etc.

Don’t take it anything Negative “Ignore and Kill them with kindness”

What do you think about it Guys? If you have any suggestions, Please share with me :)
05-21-2018, 09:51 PM
Dhiya

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did any good thing, they won’t congratulate or encouraged me.

Because, they can't achieve your level as well. I felt this so many times in my life. They scowling to me when I achieve something. There is no more fake smile too. I just hate this hell people.

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“Ignore and Kill them with kindness”

I tried to do like this. But my anger come before the kindness. What to do? Any suggestions from you.
05-21-2018, 10:48 PM
Katren

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Originally Posted by Dhiya

Because, they can't achieve your level as well. I felt this so many times in my life. They scowling to me when I achieve something. There is no more fake smile too. I just hate this hell people.
I tried to do like this. But my anger come before the kindness. What to do? Any suggestions from you.

Yes, Dhiya, I'm also hate that kinda people. They always acting like I'm your bestie but they even smile with their hart. They are not understand who I am. because, when they scolding or hurting me front of others, On that time, I'm not ignore them but react in a humble way, instead of hurting them. If we react as same like them, There is no different between them and our selves. So, Practice it your self. It's all depend on our mindset. Do you think, you can think in a different way? or angry with them?
05-22-2018, 01:23 AM
Dhiya

I can think a different way. But, I can't wear a fake mask for the unwanted people. I want to be my own version and like to face all problems from them. Lol
05-22-2018, 09:33 AM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Katren

Jealousy is an extremely dangerous for us. In my perspective and my own experienced, there are some people get jealous. I don’t know why they get jealous. If you did any good thing, they won’t congratulate or encouraged me . For that, we cannot do anything to others. And the most important thing is we never expect any single motivate or encourage from others. Normally, we can’t change other's attitude and behavior. but we have the best way to deal with it is to ignore them and focus on our productive things, such as improving ourselves by doing and learning useful things and etc.

Hi Katren!

You are being honest and speaking from your heart the best thing is to just ignore them and teach them a lesson. The one thing I would tell you they get jealous at you because you're doing something better than them you're one step ahead of them so they are trying to put you do by talking behind your back.
Stay blessed and happy :)

Don’t take it anything Negative “Ignore and Kill them with kindness”
05-22-2018, 10:11 AM
Bhavya

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Jealousy is an extremely dangerous for us. In my perspective and my own experienced, there are some people get jealous. I don’t know why they get jealous. If you did any good thing, they won’t congratulate or encouraged me . For that, we cannot do anything to others. And the most important thing is we never expect any single motivate or encourage from others. Normally, we can’t change other's attitude and behavior. but we have the best way to deal with it is to ignore them and focus on our productive things, such as improving ourselves by doing and learning useful things and etc.

Very well saidthumb;;:)

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Don’t take it anything Negative “Ignore and Kill them with kindness”

I believe the same as well,Kindness is the best way to deal the jealous people and our success is the best revenge for them.But i am struggling to give kindness to the people who tried to make me fail because of their jealous.I am still processing in it.hope i will get succeed in it and win them with my kindness:)
05-24-2018, 06:42 AM
Assassin

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Originally Posted by Katren

Jealousy is an extremely dangerous for us. In my perspective and my own experienced, there are some people get jealous. I don’t know why they get jealous. If you did any good thing, they won’t congratulate or encouraged me . For that, we cannot do anything to others. And the most important thing is we never expect any single motivate or encourage from others. Normally, we can’t change other's attitude and behavior. but we have the best way to deal with it is to ignore them and focus on our productive things, such as improving ourselves by doing and learning useful things and etc.

Don’t take it anything Negative “Ignore and Kill them with kindness”

What do you think about it Guys? If you have any suggestions, Please share with me :)

It's true. I always believe in Success is the best Revenge.
05-25-2018, 10:39 PM
Katren

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Originally Posted by Shivani

Hi Katren!

You are being honest and speaking from your heart the best thing is to just ignore them and teach them a lesson. The one thing I would tell you they get jealous at you because you're doing something better than them you're one step ahead of them so they are trying to put you do by talking behind your back.
Stay blessed and happy :)

Don’t take it anything Negative “Ignore and Kill them with kindness”

I didn't think in this way. May be you're right Shivani :) As you mentioned here for the true lines and it's a positive energy to beat them. Have you crossed any this kinda people in your life?
05-25-2018, 10:42 PM
Katren

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

Very well saidthumb;;:)

I believe the same as well,Kindness is the best way to deal the jealous people and our success is the best revenge for them.But i am struggling to give kindness to the people who tried to make me fail because of their jealous.I am still processing in it.hope i will get succeed in it and win them with my kindness:)

Yes Bhavya, Jealous people are always demoting us but If we think in a positive way, definitely we can achieve a lot. Beat them with your kindness :)
05-26-2018, 12:36 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Katren

Yes Bhavya, Jealous people are always demoting us but If we think in a positive way, definitely we can achieve a lot. Beat them with your kindness :)

Sure,I will Katren:)
06-03-2020, 06:04 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Dhiya

I can think a different way. But, I can't wear a fake mask for the unwanted people. I want to be my own version and like to face all problems from them. Lol

True Dhiya we can't wear different mask according to people, it will ruin our orginality and we also become fake by doing so. That's why it's always good to be our own self in any kind of situation.
06-03-2020, 06:07 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Assassin

It's true. I always believe in Success is the best Revenge.

Assassin, our success is the fuel to burn their jealousy which will eventually kill their life. Because jealousy won't give any good to people.