Children of single parents face more challenges in the society than normal ones?

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06-05-2018, 07:19 AM
Adiza

Children of single parents face more challenges in the society than normal ones?

Personally I feel that they have to face a lot of challenges than a normal child. I have seen the hardships of my close friend. She has always commented by her relatives or neighbors for whatever she does. There is a huge difference between the perspective of people,when a mistake/fault done by a normal child vs single parent child. Do you think so? What are the other challenges they face?
06-05-2018, 09:25 AM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Srb

Personally I feel that they have to face a lot of challenges than a normal child. I have seen the hardships of my close friend. She has always commented by her relatives or neighbors for whatever she does. There is a huge difference between the perspective of people,when a mistake/fault done by a normal child vs single parent child. Do you think so? What are the other challenges they face?

What you said was totally true, As a single parent child i faced these challenges as well. In fact If a single parent child is a girl she has to go through so many challenges. But i must say these challenges made me more strong and mature in a very young age.
06-05-2018, 08:35 PM
Adiza

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Originally Posted by Bhavya

But i must say these challenges made me more strong and mature in a very young age.

Yeah it's bitter truth. But I'm happy for your attitude. You are maturely handling the situation rather blaming your fate. thumb;;:)
06-08-2018, 03:48 PM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Srb

Yeah it's bitter truth. But I'm happy for your attitude. You are maturely handling the situation rather blaming your fate. thumb;;:)

Thank you, I learnt this maturity through my hardships
06-11-2018, 01:21 PM
Moana

Hi!

I guess more than the child himself the parent himself/herself goes through a lot of troubles and especially if it is young widow she has to go through alot of obstacles in this society which is seriously the hardest part. And as a child he/she would face a lot of insults. mocks, humiliations from relatives as well as the society in the case of a female child it is even worse.
06-11-2018, 09:15 PM
Adiza

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Originally Posted by Shivani

Hi!

I guess more than the child himself the parent himself/herself goes through a lot of troubles and especially if it is young widow she has to go through alot of obstacles in this society which is seriously the hardest part. And as a child he/she would face a lot of insults. mocks, humiliations from relatives as well as the society in the case of a female child it is even worse.

True, young widows really get bumped by society. They face a lot of challenges every day compare to a men. They make themselves stronger to handle those tantrums, difficulties and hardships.
06-12-2018, 09:34 AM
Moana

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Originally Posted by Adiza

True, young widows really get bumped by society. They face a lot of challenges every day compare to a men. They make themselves stronger to handle those tantrums, difficulties and hardships.

So very true Adiza:) Im from a single parent family and I know all those difficulties my mother has gone through.
06-15-2018, 10:20 AM
Adiza

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Originally Posted by Shivani

So very true Adiza:) Im from a single parent family and I know all those difficulties my mother has gone through.

I should appreciate that you and your mother are so courageous. Best luck for your future.
06-15-2018, 12:44 PM
Assassin

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Originally Posted by Adiza

Personally I feel that they have to face a lot of challenges than a normal child. I have seen the hardships of my close friend. She has always commented by her relatives or neighbors for whatever she does. There is a huge difference between the perspective of people,when a mistake/fault done by a normal child vs single parent child. Do you think so? What are the other challenges they face?

Yes it is. I also worried about my friend because of this. I never let him feel about it. As a boy he went so many places and get interaction with many but when it is about a girl it is more challenging. Only thing I can say is just be with them all the time. Friends make them feel comfortable and face this society with more confident.
06-15-2018, 12:57 PM
Helena

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Originally Posted by Adiza

Personally I feel that they have to face a lot of challenges than a normal child. I have seen the hardships of my close friend. She has always commented by her relatives or neighbors for whatever she does. There is a huge difference between the perspective of people,when a mistake/fault done by a normal child vs single parent child. Do you think so? What are the other challenges they face?

Yes it's true that our society judge a person based on their family background! Both the parent and the children face lot of comments from the society and the parent faces a lot of challenges on growing a child as well.
If they have at least one person or a friend who stands by themself it's fine ,if it's not the case, it would be really difficult!
06-15-2018, 08:51 PM
Lorraine

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Originally Posted by Adiza

Personally I feel that they have to face a lot of challenges than a normal child. I have seen the hardships of my close friend. She has always commented by her relatives or neighbors for whatever she does. There is a huge difference between the perspective of people,when a mistake/fault done by a normal child vs single parent child. Do you think so? What are the other challenges they face?

It is so true that single parent child has to face for lots of troubles in financial and economic needs. Most probably he or she may not get enough love they expect. Only one parent is there to give the child emotionally needs. But if the child is brainy they should always try to give the maximum happy for that only parent by getting successful as how the parent dream.
It may be a some kind of a hard thing. But that one answer for lots of problems.
06-16-2018, 12:01 AM
Adiza

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Originally Posted by Sheero

If they have at least one person or a friend who stands by themself it's fine ,if it's not the case, it would be really difficult!

So the single parents and their children will have one or few friends for support. Why do the society not accepting them as themselves. Why so much of problems in their life without any guilt?
06-16-2018, 12:04 AM
Adiza

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Originally Posted by Lorraine

It is so true that single parent child has to face for lots of troubles in financial and economic needs. Most probably he or she may not get enough love they expect. Only one parent is there to give the child emotionally needs. But if the child is brainy they should always try to give the maximum happy for that only parent by getting successful as how the parent dream.
It may be a some kind of a hard thing. But that one answer for lots of problems.

If so, what about those who aren't brainy? Don't they have any other ways to be happy/successful and make their single parent happy in the life?
02-26-2019, 10:18 AM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Adiza

If so, what about those who aren't brainy? Don't they have any other ways to be happy/successful and make their single parent happy in the life?

It's not about the brain and education, Its all about heart If a child decided to make his/her parent happy he/she will do all the needful things to give them a happy and content life
02-26-2019, 10:22 AM
Bhavya

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Originally Posted by Adiza

So the single parents and their children will have one or few friends for support. Why do the society not accepting them as themselves. Why so much of problems in their life without any guilt?

It's the reality of our society Adiza, single parents and their children are seen in different eyes by our society. This society is always willing to put more troubles in their already struggling life. Hope these behaviours will change in the future.