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Since my childhood I have a habit of sharing everything with my parents,especially with my mother. Some people say there should be a limitation on sharing things with parents! I myself don't think so, it's always good to be transparent to your family. Isn't it so?
Share your thoughts about this?
Like you I too share everything with my mother. It's give me kind of a relief ,So in my point of view it's a good habit.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Sharing everything with your parents is good thing. It improve parent-child bonding, trust with children. But with ages, the transparency get reduced. You can share everything as same as before. But you will trim the detailing of the incident. Sometime you'll hide something from your parent who is your best friend, because you don't want to hurt them or not to scare them by the incident.
You're right, But if our parents come to know the news from others the hurt they get is much more than the hurt when they hear it from us.Quote:
because you don't want to hurt them or not to scare them by the incident
so It's better to share the news by ourselves.
Same here.The relief we get after sharing things with our parents can never be explained unless experiencedlove;;:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
I agree we do hide things just to make sure they aren't worried about ourselves.But only for the time being, later on we have to share it with them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Srb
I understand what you are talking about. As you said parents would definitely get hurt when a third person explains and knows the fact better than them .This could even make them worried about the way they raised you.So better share everything, at least some sensitive issues as early as possible.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
Yeah, they will get hurt. But the impact of that incident comparatively reduced at that time. It will hurt them, when they hear it from someone else. But they can understand why did you hide it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
But it's not the case with all the issues.We should be more concerned about this issue.Quote:
Originally Posted by Adiza
Yeah it is totally based on the issue..If it is a sensitive issue, then you have to inform your parents without delay.. Sometimes experience of parents is the best solution to the problem.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Yes it is, I shared almost everything with my Dad. But Boys never do like the way girls do I think. Boys not always stays in home so they don'y have time like girls to talk. Even though I managed to share everything with my Dad. I tried to hide some from him but he managed to understand and never ask about it. The way he give motivations is makes me love more and more. So whatever the difficulties first said that to your parents, no one trust you the way they did.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Very true we can feel it through experience only.:) We couldn't explain it through words.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Couldn't Agree more, I must say your are lucky to have such a understanding and motivating Dad.Next time when you meet him don't forget to give my kind regards to him:)Quote:
Originally Posted by assassin
You make me blush, sometimes I got jelourous on him when he got credits! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Bhavya
HaHa, Don't be jealous after all he is your dad, you should be proud of him.Quote:
Originally Posted by assassin
Happy to hear that and yes, most of the boys don't share their problems with heir parents. I should say you are lucky to have a dad like himthumb;;:)Quote:
Originally Posted by assassin
lol ;) Don't be jealous, rather try to be like him in the futureQuote:
Originally Posted by assassin
Yes it is, I always try be like my dad. I have a healthy competition with nay dad to overcome him, but I can always said he is the best, but I never accept that infront of him. He teach that damn attitude too. lol;;:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Cool Buddyyou)rocker:;;:)Quote:
Originally Posted by assassin
It makes me remember of some film in Tamil named "Appa"
Yes it is, There is a lot of similarities with that movie. Especially the school scene happens to me in my real life. :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Of course, had the same habit. It avoids me from going on the wrong path. Always keep your mother so close like your friends. She is the only one in this world who will listen to your everything. But in decision making and all always don't try to depend on mother because it may cause for your personality someday in the future.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sheero
Happy to know that you too share things with your parents Lorraine :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lorraine
I accept your point. Decision making is totally up-to us but we should get some suggestions from our parents as wellQuote:
Originally Posted by Lorraine
Well, it is always good to share mostly everything with your parents! Because in the end it would be your mother who would be in support of you!Quote:
Originally Posted by Helena
I usually share everything with my family, but when I know some things would make my mother riled up, I postpone the news until the thing has happened. If I catch fever when I'm in my hostel,I don't tell her that, coz she would start worrying about me. Instead, I tell her about it, when I'm actually cured. That way I can give her a peace of mind.Quote:
Originally Posted by Helena
I also follow this method Shana, this way we are not making them worried and at the same time we are not hiding anything from them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shana
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