Quote Originally Posted by Adiza View Post
If a guy is serious and you want to avoid him for personal reason, you can talk to him about your situation. Actually you will feel bad for hurting him, but it is far better than giving a false hope. He will be hurt by your decision but with time he manages to be okay with the rejection. It is important that your rejection will not make him feel like a looser. You should ensure that your rejection doesn't meant to hurt his self respect or personality, but only because of your situation. If you are not sure, better you convey your rejection as earlier as possible, it can avoid him having further hopes on you.
Seriously? You think you can avoid a guy by explaining the situation? I don't think so. I've seen too many to believe otherwise. Even if it's the most crucial situation, guys keep up the hope of wooing the girl. Be it a personal reason or he's totally friend zoned, guys don't take no for an answer. And that is the end of a good friendship!