Comparing a kid with another kid! Does it really motivates them?

**Karikaalan** · 07-29-2018, 01:30 PM

Originally Posted by Helena

A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.

Does comparing make things worse or better?Share your thoughts

This is the most bad thing to do for kids. When we are comparing two kids, one kid gets into inferiority complex and the other one gets some head weight. This will lead to a bad future for both of them .. every children should be appreciated for every little positive things they do , but should not be compared.

**Bhavya** · 07-30-2018, 05:51 AM

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

This is the most bad thing to do for kids. When we are comparing two kids, one kid gets into inferiority complex and the other one gets some head weight. This will lead to a bad future for both of them .. every children should be appreciated for every little positive things they do , but should not be compared.

True,Comparing Kids affect both sides of the kids negatively.Parents should realize that they are spoiling their kids future by comparing them with other kids.