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    Question Comparing a kid with another kid! Does it really motivates them?

    A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
    But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.





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    Quote Originally Posted by Sheero View Post
    A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
    But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.





    Does comparing make things worse or better?Share your thoughts

    it is worse matter for the children not better ,Why parents never compare their kids with other kids .Here some reasons ,
    1.It will cause self -doubt .
    2.Jealously Will take root.
    3.It will breed negativity
    4.They will grow into jittery and nervous adults.
    5. It will damage the parent-child relationship

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sheero View Post
    A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
    But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.





    Does comparing make things worse or better?Share your thoughts
    Definitely,Comparing kids with the other kids will worsen the situations,It will impact the kids negatively,kids started to feel insecure and their self confidence level will be down which lead to low performance in their studies.Parents should understand that every kids has unique talents in them,As a parent they try to improve their kids unique talents
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helena View Post
    A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
    But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.





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    This is the most bad thing to do for kids. When we are comparing two kids, one kid gets into inferiority complex and the other one gets some head weight. This will lead to a bad future for both of them .. every children should be appreciated for every little positive things they do , but should not be compared.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karikaalan View Post
    This is the most bad thing to do for kids. When we are comparing two kids, one kid gets into inferiority complex and the other one gets some head weight. This will lead to a bad future for both of them .. every children should be appreciated for every little positive things they do , but should not be compared.
    True,Comparing Kids affect both sides of the kids negatively.Parents should realize that they are spoiling their kids future by comparing them with other kids.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helena View Post
    A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
    But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.





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    Yes. Comparing one kid with another is totally wrong. Every kid is differently talented. Parents need to give space and time for the kids to find out their talent. Destroying their own self-esteem is the first thing happens to a child when it is compared with another child. When kids lose their self-esteem it will continue to hide themselves from opportunities. Those children have an inferiority complex later in their life.
    Let's be the change

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    it is worse matter for the children not better ,Why parents never compare their kids with other kids .Here some reasons ,
    1.It will cause self -doubt .
    2.Jealously Will take root.
    3.It will breed negativity
    4.They will grow into jittery and nervous adults.
    5. It will damage the parent-child relationship
    So you are saying that comparing is not good? Point taken. Thanks for sharing it Wondergirl.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    it is worse matter for the children not better ,Why parents never compare their kids with other kids .Here some reasons ,
    1.It will cause self -doubt .
    2.Jealously Will take root.
    3.It will breed negativity
    4.They will grow into jittery and nervous adults.
    5. It will damage the parent-child relationship
    First we should teach parents about these negativeness that they are causing to their children by comparing them with other kids, then only they will stop doing it.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helena View Post
    A common thing that every parents do is comparing their own kids with other kids of their same age.They think that this would motivate their kids and they'll perform much better in future.
    But they fail to realize that every kid is special and has unique qualities.In my view comparing makes kids stress full and can create inferiority complex.


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    Comparing is worst thing for the human life, but product comparing is good. we can't live others life, so we don't need to compare others with us.
    If we need to improve our skill compare our past and our present, we are the best for comparing our own self not anyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tripidea View Post
    Comparing is worst thing for the human life, but product comparing is good. we can't live others life, so we don't need to compare others with us.
    If we need to improve our skill compare our past and our present, we are the best for comparing our own self not anyone.
    Well Said If we really want to improve ourselves we should compare our own past and present selves rather than comparing ourselves with others.
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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