Thread: How To Be Happy Alone and Enjoy Life!

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren , Don't allow your negative feeling to consume you. Every person in this world are worthy no one can be us. everyone of us are unique in our own way. From your talks one thing is sure, they are your close buddies. put your hurt and ego down and just have a direct talk with them maybe the problem will be short out.Still there are people who love you just think about them. I am also sensitive person but I never vulnerably show my emotions or feelings to others because some people couldn't understand it and other people take advantage of it. So I always keep my emotion closed. I know talking is easy than doing but give it a try, It will help you.

It's not my negative thought. I'm telling here the truth. In my perspective, there is nothing important to have the number of friends that matters but the quality of the relationship. It is important to socialize and also need to have close friends that can share our troubles and lighten our load. but in my circle, I haven't that kind of people, not all friends. only a few of them. As you mentioned you closed your emotions. actually that will be fine. I need to follow this. Thanks for your advise. All are hurting me emotionally. that's my weak point, need to be changed as soon.

Originally Posted by Katren

It's not my negative thought. I'm telling here the truth. In my perspective, there is nothing important to have the number of friends that matters but the quality of the relationship. It is important to socialize and also need to have close friends that can share our troubles and lighten our load. but in my circle, I haven't that kind of people, not all friends. only a few of them. As you mentioned you closed your emotions. actually that will be fine. I need to follow this. Thanks for your advise. All are hurting me emotionally. that's my week point, need to be changed as soon.

Why you want to close your feelings, you don't live for others your life only for you so don't control your emotions and feelings, if you like to expose your feeling lonely or in-front of others do it, don't live for others. live your life happily in-front of your friends.

Originally Posted by Bhavya

We have the freedom to express our feelings and emotions. But when we do it in public some people can take advantage of it. So for our own safety sometimes we need to hide our true feelings.

yes, Everyone deals with emotions differently. maybe others will take an advantage. but basically, i feel relaxed when I express my feelings to others. I think this is the mistake I do to make others to take it in a wrong way. Everyone need to give the respect to others feelings, if they are not then they are not a good human being. we can't change others mindset and behaviors but we have the option to don't care about others.

Originally Posted by Bhavya

We have the freedom to express our feelings and emotions. But when we do it in public some people can take advantage of it. So for our own safety sometimes we need to hide our true feelings.

Why we need to hide our feelings?, if we show our feelings that time someone take advantage it.it's not a problem, we need to face that problems if we have fear to face our society then we shouldn't live in this world.

When we face our all problems that time we will get a best power in this world, that is "Believe".

Originally Posted by tripidea

Why you want to close your feelings, you don't live for others your life only for you so don't control your emotions and feelings, if you like to expose your feeling lonely or in-front of others do it, don't live for others. live your life happily in-front of your friends.

I'm not close my feelings, but when I expose my feeling, there people came and advise me a lot, I thought like they are care about me and giving the advise but there are someone do the backtalk in a different way. that means, they are thinking in their own perceptive and create another problem in-between me and my buddies. I think this kind of back talkers are very dangerous. therefore I should be very careful throughout my life. The best way I learned, understand them and be Silence. Nothing beats silence.