Thread: Give me the tips to maintain the distance with others!

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Katren,

I can understand your emotional state. It happens in life. The people we love the most are the ones who hurt us the most. the reason is we expect the same love,care and understanding from them that we are giving to them. And when we didn't receive those things from them we get terribly hurt and broken. Remember one thing we can't expect people to love us the same way we are loving them. When you learn to love people without the expectation to receiving that love back then only you can avoid these kind of hurts (I know it's very difficult to be like that because everyone of us want to be loved, but with practice you can learn to love people without expectation). Don't hurt yourself for their behaviors. Just love yourself enough to ignore them. Be happy girl

Yep, it's very difficult, But I can't ignore them, because still I feel they are my closed and favorite ones, you know one thing, sometimes, we can't live without them, I have seen a lot of people but I think I'm very unlucky person, I don't have any good soul from my family and friends side, Maybe I was wrong, but Honestly I didn't make any mistakes from my side, I can't change others mindset and behavior, So I decided to maintain the distance from them.