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    How to deal with the haters in the relative ?

    Hello friends,

    In my relative this Particular relative hates me so much. I can easily understand this by her actions and words.She did so many bad things to me. Luckily i overcome every trouble she created to me. But the hurt is still there.
    she is a close relative so i can't ignore her. I have to face her daily, Because both of our houses are so near.

    Can someone suggest me how can i deal with her?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    Hello friends,
    In my relative this Particular relative hates me so much. I can easily understand this by her actions and words.She did so many bad things to me. Luckily i overcome every trouble she created to me. But the hurt is still there.
    she is a close relative so i can't ignore her. I have to face her daily, Because both of our houses are so near.
    Can someone suggest me how can i deal with her?
    Recently i read an article about Baaghi 2 review and the hero Tiger Shroff said, This film peaked top because of the stunt scenes and actor and actress both combination of the hard work! Firther he stressed his gym coach is the person he tortured him everyday to get this shape and such energy.

    Look, most of the people easily fail because they are living in an ordinary life where no haters nor true well wishers! I'm glad you have a person who always caring and hurting you to move further, just love her as much as possible and move further based on what she said that you can't do or you are not born for that! If she praised you, thank and forget that instantly. If she cursed you smile and move on.

    Again, You are lucky because you've a free mentor who can watch and criticize whatever you do where you can keep track on what you are up to
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    Recently i read an article about Baaghi 2 review and the hero Tiger Shroff said, This film peaked top because of the stunt scenes and actor and actress both combination of the hard work! Firther he stressed his gym coach is the person he tortured him everyday to get this shape and such energy.

    Look, most of the people easily fail because they are living in an ordinary life where no haters nor true well wishers! I'm glad you have a person who always caring and hurting you to move further, just love her as much as possible and move further based on what she said that you can't do or you are not born for that! If she praised you, thank and forget that instantly. If she cursed you smile and move on.
    Thank you very much ,These are much needed motivational words for me.

    Again, You are lucky because you've a free mentor who can watch and criticize whatever you do where you can keep track on what you are up to
    Very true, She always remind me what i loose and what gain.My best track recorder
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    Hello friends,

    In my relative this Particular relative hates me so much. I can easily understand this by her actions and words.She did so many bad things to me. Luckily i overcome every trouble she created to me. But the hurt is still there.
    she is a close relative so i can't ignore her. I have to face her daily, Because both of our houses are so near.

    Can someone suggest me how can i deal with her?
    Some of my relatives also like the peroson you mention above. Only thing I do all the time is, keep my face smile. Whatever they said i just smile and I show the attitude like I don't care. Who knows sometimes they need a solution, how to handle me as a releative (lol).

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    Quote Originally Posted by assassin View Post
    Some of my relatives also like the peroson you mention above. Only thing I do all the time is, keep my face smile. Whatever they said i just smile and I show the attitude like I don't care. Who knows sometimes they need a solution, how to handle me as a releative (lol).
    Lol, At starting I reacted to her, Now as you said I learnt to smile which made the things somewhat manageable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bhavya View Post
    Lol, At starting I reacted to her, Now as you said I learnt to smile which made the things somewhat manageable.
    That's fine, just keep don't care attitude for these kind of people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by assassin View Post
    That's fine, just keep don't care attitude for these kind of people.
    Okay Friend,Nice advice, Will follow As you said
    You're not going to master the rest of your life in one day. Don't stress. Master the day. Make this a daily reminder.

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