How to deal with the negative people in our life?

**Shana** · 07-11-2018, 01:58 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Hello friends,

Negative people always see negativity in every situations.you try to stay positive and remain strong but their negativity ends up just completely draining you.
You feel exhausted and you may also start to feel depresses too.

Can you guys have any solutions to handle the negative people in our life?

Stay away from them. Simple. I met such a character a few months ago and I had to deal with that person in order to finish our group project. Think of being with a constant whining noise...That was how it was for me.
We finished the project as fast as we can just because I could get away from her. Since I don't tolerate these kinda people, I hint at their behaviour as a joke. basically, I make jokes all the time and I'm used to smiling at people. So my jokes are not usually taken seriously. So when I say something or do something that imitates them comically, they laugh it off. But I know I've hit the mark.

They don't behave that way after that around me. Maybe what I do hurts them, but I'm ok with being selfish to save me from poisonous people. After all, you live only once.

**Moana** · 07-11-2018, 09:38 AM

Originally Posted by Shana

Stay away from them. Simple. I met such a character a few months ago and I had to deal with that person in order to finish our group project. Think of being with a constant whining noise...That was how it was for me.
We finished the project as fast as we can just because I could get away from her. Since I don't tolerate these kinda people, I hint at their behaviour as a joke. basically, I make jokes all the time and I'm used to smiling at people. So my jokes are not usually taken seriously. So when I say something or do something that imitates them comically, they laugh it off. But I know I've hit the mark.

They don't behave that way after that around me. Maybe what I do hurts them, but I'm ok with being selfish to save me from poisonous people. After all, you live only once.

Just ignore the negative people in life and move.

**Bhavya** · 07-11-2018, 04:51 PM

Originally Posted by Shana

Stay away from them. Simple. I met such a character a few months ago and I had to deal with that person in order to finish our group project. Think of being with a constant whining noise...That was how it was for me.
We finished the project as fast as we can just because I could get away from her. Since I don't tolerate these kinda people, I hint at their behaviour as a joke. basically, I make jokes all the time and I'm used to smiling at people. So my jokes are not usually taken seriously. So when I say something or do something that imitates them comically, they laugh it off. But I know I've hit the mark.

They don't behave that way after that around me. Maybe what I do hurts them, but I'm ok with being selfish to save me from poisonous people. After all, you live only once.

Wow it's a great trick, I think I should adopt this behavior to deal with them

**Shana** · 07-12-2018, 02:40 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Wow it's a great trick, I think I should adopt this behavior to deal with them

Yeah..It works most of the time. Positivity and negativity are contagious. Being around people will affect your mood as well. So I found that it's not my character to ignore them.
My mind is stubborn that way. So I tease or imitate them as a comedy. Even though they don't show their reaction, they keep a distance from me after that. They can't outright blame you or reprimand you for making that joke. Fast and simple.

**Bhavya** · 07-12-2018, 04:53 PM

So I found that it's not my character to ignore them.

Same here, I couldn't ignore them.

My mind is stubborn that way. So I tease or imitate them as a comedy. Even though they don't show their reaction, they keep a distance from me after that. They can't outright blame you or reprimand you for making that joke. Fast and simple.

you're right,They can't blame for a joke, I will follow your trick today onward