How to deal with the negative people in our life?

**Bhavya** · 07-11-2018, 04:51 PM

Originally Posted by Shana

Stay away from them. Simple. I met such a character a few months ago and I had to deal with that person in order to finish our group project. Think of being with a constant whining noise...That was how it was for me.
We finished the project as fast as we can just because I could get away from her. Since I don't tolerate these kinda people, I hint at their behaviour as a joke. basically, I make jokes all the time and I'm used to smiling at people. So my jokes are not usually taken seriously. So when I say something or do something that imitates them comically, they laugh it off. But I know I've hit the mark.

They don't behave that way after that around me. Maybe what I do hurts them, but I'm ok with being selfish to save me from poisonous people. After all, you live only once.

Wow it's a great trick, I think I should adopt this behavior to deal with them

**Shana** · 07-12-2018, 02:40 AM

Originally Posted by Bhavya

Wow it's a great trick, I think I should adopt this behavior to deal with them

Yeah..It works most of the time. Positivity and negativity are contagious. Being around people will affect your mood as well. So I found that it's not my character to ignore them.
My mind is stubborn that way. So I tease or imitate them as a comedy. Even though they don't show their reaction, they keep a distance from me after that. They can't outright blame you or reprimand you for making that joke. Fast and simple.

**Bhavya** · 07-12-2018, 04:53 PM

So I found that it's not my character to ignore them.

Same here, I couldn't ignore them.

My mind is stubborn that way. So I tease or imitate them as a comedy. Even though they don't show their reaction, they keep a distance from me after that. They can't outright blame you or reprimand you for making that joke. Fast and simple.

you're right,They can't blame for a joke, I will follow your trick today onward