In the end however for marriage character plus attitude matters, I know lol!
I''m sure we are talking about human and loves right ? As far as i know and based on my own experience, the attitude and character depends on the opposite person reaction and yes the circumstances!

The love for me is the most specific thing I am expecting from him.
We all are seeking what we need and end up with divorce because of we still think what we need instead of what we can give and how can we change for him/her! Maybe if you think, why i need to change for someone then you guess the answer from the opposite person as well.

If you guys talking about "love" , then there is no expectation but only the understanding, less talk, much feel!