Thread: Who knows the best way to reject something?

Always pain accompany with rejection.If we have faced it already ,then never wish to give such hard feelings to anyone.

In case if we are in a compelled situation to reject for someones betterment then we must look in to certain things before doing so.It is not a simple task.It needs a strong heart and polite ,kind words else it ends with miss understanding.The right way is to empathize their situation and react based on that.Saying directly to the person without hurting is welcomed but sometimes rejecting through friends or colleague reduces the awkwardness.

Originally Posted by Shan

Always pain accompany with rejection.If we have faced it already ,then never wish to give such hard feelings to anyone.

In case if we are in a compelled situation to reject for someones betterment then we must look in to certain things before doing so.It is not a simple task.It needs a strong heart and polite ,kind words else it ends with miss understanding.The right way is to empathize their situation and react based on that. Saying directly to the person without hurting is welcomed but sometimes rejecting through friends or colleague reduces the awkwardness.

Rejecting through a friend makes me feel like a coward. That's another problem. I usually try it with mu utmost kindest words, but they take it as a form of weakness and try to overpower me with words.