Quote Originally Posted by Shan View Post
Always pain accompany with rejection.If we have faced it already ,then never wish to give such hard feelings to anyone.

In case if we are in a compelled situation to reject for someones betterment then we must look in to certain things before doing so.It is not a simple task.It needs a strong heart and polite ,kind words else it ends with miss understanding.The right way is to empathize their situation and react based on that.Saying directly to the person without hurting is welcomed but sometimes rejecting through friends or colleague reduces the awkwardness.
True Shan this is the exact case with me, I usually didn't get any support ,motivation,love, care or understanding for myself when I need them the most.So whenever someone expect support ,motivation,love, care or understanding from me I always give those things to them because i know the terrible feeling when you don't receive them.But still I am alone when I need support ,motivation,love, care or understanding. I think god listed me in the giving group not in the receiving group.