Thread: Who knows the best way to reject something?

Originally Posted by Shana

Wow...How do you do it? Whenever I say no, they're like "You did this for them, why can't you do it for us?" and they make me feel like a traitor for getting off some work off me. How do you handle these dramas?
And I have a compulsive behaviour to say yes. I don't like people getting disappointed by me even for a second and that puts a hell load of a burden on my shoulders.
And I don't like saying No, without trying it even once. Any solutions?

What do they do at the same time we do their work? It's their work. We have a long way to travel in life. We have our own work and they have their own work.
"You did this for them, why can't you do it for us?" This looks like an emotional blackmail. I dont have such friends who emotionally blackmail me. That's why I think it's easy for me.

Originally Posted by Karikaalan

What do they do at the same time we do their work? It's their work. We have a long way to travel in life. We have our own work and they have their own work.
"You did this for them, why can't you do it for us?" This looks like an emotional blackmail. I dont have such friends who emotionally blackmail me. That's why I think it's easy for me.

Totally get your point!